Yeah, thats just creepy....you seem to be in this group for all the wrong reasons.
Once again, someone taking it upon themselves to define what's "right". Man, and I thought Jack Chick was anal.. To put your mind at ease, Miss Buttercup, I'm not interested in the music, the dancing, the alcohol, or the recreational drug use.
I'm interested in conversation, the meeting of reasonably likeminded individuals, and the potential to find someone I enjoy the company of. Since the the music pretty much precludes the possibility of conversation at these sort of events, it's very difficult to tell if someone else is interesting by any means other than visual. I'm sure you could make an arguement for pheromones, but quite frankly the heavy smoking rather limits what one can notice in that regard. So I'm left with what I can see. You can make a logical argument that I still have touch and taste available, but somehow I don't think you're about to go down THAT road, unless it involves the kicking of my ass and me eating my words, both of which are unlikely to occur. Now, as I was saying, I'm limitted to sight for the most part for any meaningful experience in the atmosphere of these social events. And I just happen to like what I see.. Yay me. So now that it's all pleasantly explained, do you care to indulge in a little bit more "drama" in a thread that the author of has already requested be free of it, or would you like to take any possible grievences you have with me to PM, where I can address them personally and in as much detail as your heart might desire.
Your choice. Choose wisely.