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question for the boys
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:14 pm
by gwenhwyfar
i this prolly isn't the best place to ask this question, but oh well. i need feedback to prove my mother wrong.
we are arguing over my foul mouth.
she says its a turn off to all men to hear a "lady" curse like i do, and thats why i never have a boyfriend.
I responded with guys in this day and age don't care the way her generation did, then proceeded with something like 'thats horseshit, blabla. its not that i never have a boyfriend, i just don't bring them home to meet the family cuz you think crazy shit like this.' then i said that a dirty mouth was just part of who i am and she, along with any guy, will just have to deal with it.
she laughed at me and rolled her eyes
soooooo...............who's "right"? opinions please!
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:22 pm
by Mother Mo
Not a dude, but I'm a chick who regularly cusses like a sailor & neither of my husbands nor any of my other male acquaintances have ever minded. Some guys even like it. The ones who don't, you don't wanna waste your time with anyway. Fuck em!

Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:27 pm
by Reverend_ Hate
I don't find a foul mouth on a female to be a turn off at all.As long as a woman is intelligent and has a personality that I dig,then I could give a rat's ass how much she curses.
Besides,with MY filthy mouth it helps a lot for a woman to be comfortable with profanity.

Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:45 pm
by Mercurygriffin
The way I see it a vocabulary that contians what others refer to as "dirty words" is just as good if not better than one without. In some cases it can come in handy when trying to convey deep emotion. The idea that some words are off limits is just another example of people trying to control others. I say speak your mind as freely as you wish and without reservation.
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:46 pm
by junkie christ
ok women:
the more you curse, the more filthier you talk, the nastier it gets
the hotter you fucking are.
do that in bed too.
invent new curse words and scream em, just saying fuck over and over kinda gets old.
feel free to insult yourself, the guy, the world, and do it as damned graphic as you can.
filthy mouths lead to happy bois.
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 3:47 pm
by 4X541N7
Hey...I couldn't date a woman that didn't cuss...IT would be weird to use profanities in my everyday venacular, without hearing my other use them as well...Actually, I find it attractive in a way...It, IMO, shows that the person in question, has a sense of themself, & flaunts this fact in the face of the status quo...
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 4:03 pm
by jjenisis
Im not a potty mouth per say but I have been known to let them slip here and there....though I have found them to be quite erotic when used in bed...maybe just because I so rarely use profanity in my daily language and it isnt expected
Im a girl btw.
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 5:50 pm
by karmakaze
i think its sorta hot when girls cuss.
as long as they are using their profanities intelligently. (did that make any sense?)
its not nearly as entertaining when all they say is 1 profanity in every other word. if that helps make any more sense.
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 5:55 pm
by vicious_blood
karmakaze wrote:i think its sorta hot when girls cuss.
as long as they are using their profanities intelligently. (did that make any sense?)
its not nearly as entertaining when all they say is 1 profanity in every other word. if that helps make any more sense.
I think it made sense and I agree with you. PLus, there's a time when it's ok to cuss, and a time when it's not. Like, you wouldn't want to walk up to your preacher and be like "Hi Pastor Bob! How you fuckin doing?!"
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:38 pm
by sinful_fetish
I think it made sense and I agree with you. PLus, there's a time when it's ok to cuss, and a time when it's not. Like, you wouldn't want to walk up to your preacher and be like "Hi Pastor Bob! How you fuckin doing?!"
You mean thats not ok..........
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 6:41 pm
by Elvis Christ
I think it's really really REALLY hot when you have a girl that never ever curses anywhere for any reason.....until you hop in the sack. I had this one girlfriend that refused to curse, but the second the lovin' started she'd let loose like she was George Carlin or something. That's so much more erotic than a girl with a constant, daily public foulmouth..

Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 8:10 pm
by The Fallen
I on the other hand, appreciate a girl who can make a sailor blush. It's a total turn on, especially when playing rumpy-pumpy

I say just be who you are darlin, don't change for people. If they don't like ya for who ya are then thats their loss

Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 9:00 pm
by Snap Dragon
I've noticed that when I cuss around my friends... the boys, not the men, have a problem with it... plus, some of them find it kind of daring since they are forbidden to say such things...
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 9:09 pm
by vasupergirl
The Fallen wrote: I say just be who you are darlin, don't change for people. If they don't like ya for who ya are then thats their loss

I second that. Being honest about who you are is more valuable than just having boyfriends.
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 9:59 pm
by iblis
Any guy who isn't interested in a women solely because she swears needs to turn off the fucking stupid cube, and destroy their Leave it to Beaver collection.
Yes, you heard me. Every. Last. Episode.
Goddamn fucking pansies...
Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 11:42 pm
by karmakaze
vicious_blood wrote:karmakaze wrote:i think its sorta hot when girls cuss.
as long as they are using their profanities intelligently. (did that make any sense?)
its not nearly as entertaining when all they say is 1 profanity in every other word. if that helps make any more sense.
I think it made sense and I agree with you. PLus, there's a time when it's ok to cuss, and a time when it's not. Like, you wouldn't want to walk up to your preacher and be like "Hi Pastor Bob! How you fuckin doing?!"
i disagree. that would be hot.
Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 12:14 am
by vinylpirate
Well I would imagine that asking your pastor "how the fuck are you doin?" would take some intestinal fortitude and at least you would have a girl thats got some balls....metaphorically speaking not literally.... and isnt that better than a girl thats just gonna sit around and be all "eh" and girly?!?
Curesing
Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 12:37 am
by Nigredo
I personality don't like it when a lady curse. I also think that people should think about what that say before that say it. There has been a few times when we all go to some place to eat and people just say the most rude things. We should all be a little nicer when we talk in public. It's all about ETIQUETTE.
Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 1:53 am
by Asher
it wouldn't phase my pastor a bit. heh.
I dont cuss that often really..no particular reason..just..dont. -shrugs-
Re: Curesing
Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 2:04 am
by karmakaze
Frostmourne wrote:There has been a few times when we all go to some place to eat and people just say the most rude things. We should all be a little nicer when we talk in public. It's all about ETIQUETTE.
oh i don't know, my most endearing quality is my mouth. i tend to be very polite and exceptionally crude. i enjoy the contrast. plus, when i take my meds, i say the damnest things.