I have found out that if I do not divorce Doc by Dec. 31st, I will have to file my income tax as 'married; filing separately'. This will cost me $1,000-2,000 in income tax refund. Just one more way that he hurts me financially. Anyone that knows me, knows the situation with him for the last year & a half. I want to be free of him but cannot afford a divorce atty. since I have 3 teens and am STILL trying to get out of the debt that Doc put me in. Thus, I'm setting up a paypal link for anyone that would be willing to contribute $1-2 to help me pay for my divorce to Doc. Yes, I'll admit, I've come to the point of begging!! I'm embarassed ass hell about it, but I'm thinking more in terms of how my children will be affected financially. THEY are the ones that I'm concerned about. Anyone willing to contribute, no matter how small of an amount, is automatically invited to my divorce finalization party.....all alcohol provided! If you would be kind enough to contribute a dollar or two to my divorce, the link to my paypal site is: LadyIvanna@techmerc.net.

Why not?

I posted one for helping us keep our house at the top of my Xanga. The slow financial bleed is gushing after this spring's emergency surgery not long after a major planned surgery on top of having our house insurance TRIPLE without warning.

Lady I,
I don't have anything to off right now, since I'm unemployeed. But I'll gladly give up my coffee on friday's for a couple weeks, to help you out. I'll let you know, when I send it.

Good luck.

I don't have much to contribute; but, I will contribute what I can. See what happens when I lose contact with people, their world changes before I know it.