About a year and a half ago, I was doing some BDSM shows at the 319 club. After one of the shows, this guy begins talking to me and expresses a desire to sub for me. After a period of days of talking with him, we decide to get together at his place. I, of course, brought Doc to make sure that nothing would go wrong. Nothing happened at his place except to nogotiate some things. When we left, everything was fine(or so I thought).

A couple of nights later, he calls my house. The conversation started out pleasant enough. I'm not sure what I said to cause him to snap, but all of a sudden, he began calling me some really awful names and telling me how he was going to torture and kill me. Doc then grabbed the phone. The guy started saying the same type of shit to him. I won't go into what Doc said to him(I find it amusing to think of someone threatening to torture my hubby. Anyone who has seen him knows what I mean.)

I said all of that to say this: The guy's name is XXXX*(a four letter name starting with "R"). He is about 5'10" with short blondish hair that is very wavy and he mouses heavily. He wears round, wire-rim glasses. This man is a predator!!

I was horrified when my friend Brandi & I came to Asylum a couple of weeks ago and he was there and talking to her. When I questioned her about it, she said that he had been e-mailing her. It horrified me even more to see him trying to connect with other KG females at the club. He of course didn't get anywhere with it because I promptly told each of the females my experience with him. Also, I let Pan & Mafiaman in on it and they kept a VERY CLOSE eye on him while he was there.

PLEASE!PLEASE!PLEASE!! Stay away from this guy!!!!!!!!! He is a real weirdo. He is crazy and dangerous! I don't want ANY of you to be hurt by this man.


*(name edited for leagl reasons)

Also, I am not sure if he is on the KG board or the fetish board, but he does like to lurk in the goth and the bdsm circles. Remember girls, his name is ****.




*Edited for legal reasons

My best friend (actually my ex) picked up a stalker while she was in England a few years ago who followed her back to the states when she came home. It was one of the most scary things I have ever been involved with. We had to go through the courts to get an order of protection and everything....

Everyone please be careful.....think twice about giving someone that you don't really know too much personal information. It could save your life.....

that is pretty scary, on both accounts.
i hate to think what *could* happen...

kimmie

Thanks for the Warning, Shawn. I hate that you went through that with this guy.

Thank you very much, Shawn dear, for putting this up. I think it is very important for all of us to be careful. Please, if at any time someone is making any of you uncomfortable, bring it to the attention of the KGB and let them do something about it... I, for one, would like to keep our club scene a safe environment. If you don't feel comfortable talking with one of them, come talk to me... I am always happy to help and protect my friends! 'course woe betide the person bothering you once they cross me
Let's keep our scene safe and fun!!!!
~bear

yes now i remeber him and why You were so up set that night! its(his) face has now fit into place for me.i realy do hope that EVERYONE is careful around this guy. we are not sure if it(he) is on knoxfetish ,but we have a newbbie under the nick IHATEYOU
and that would fit the bill of it(him) so don't go anywhere aaloong with out KNOWING the person you're with PLEAASEEEEE!

our thoughts are with You Shawn &Doc.

huggles,
littleseeker

shit! i'd better ditch these wire-rim glasses; first people mistake me for peter parker, and now this!

Okay, Iwant to say this.... I am leaving this post as a reminder to everyone to be careful allways... While this is a very close community where we all try an look out for each other there are predetors in the world. In the past in the Old City there was an incident of another preditor type sliping daterape drugs to two of our community....
Please people be careful and look out for one another!!!

LadyIvanna, I appreaceante and applaude you stepping forward as you have to warn the community... please get a hold of me at your soonist convieneance I will PM you my phone #
For legal reasons to protect this board I am removing his Name, but not the description. Any of you wishing info about this person please contact LadyIvanna personnaly, where she can freely give you details.
I am also locking and announcing this thread in the general forum for a while so it won't get bumped from the front page.

In the future if ANYONE has problems that they feel need addressed due to harrassment at a KG event, or through this web site PLEASE contact us IMMEDIATELY that the situation can be handled. If anyone feels harrassed sexual or otherwise at a KG event please find one of Myself, Vader, Arkady, or one of the Security members or Bar Staff, for your safety as well as everyone elses, the stituation will be handled.